TGIF.
I was so happy when i got up this morning 'coz itz Friday...Yup Yup..Itz Friday... :)
After slogging my ass in office for a while i was waiting to get out of office as soon as i can. And today was the day. We were told that the system is going down from 4 in the eve. So i was just waiting the whole day for 4'o clock. The whole afternoon i was whiling my time away...
At 2.45 i saw my boss leaving.
At 3.45...one of my colleagues
At 4.45.. all of us packed and left.
TGIF
Friday, October 24, 2008
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Power House
B : Hiii
G : Hiii
B : How r u
G : Doing gud...How r u
B : Am ok.
G : Y ? What happened ?
B : Bad day @ work
G : Itz ok.It happens.Itz part of the game.
N so on and so forth
The conversation above is happening between a guy and girl online.
Now, what's running in the minds of these two people.
The guy obviously had a bad day and she is trying pacify him with her nice words. The guy feels she is the best person ever he has met unlike his colleagues who try to snap at him. Over the period of time the guy starts picturizing the girl in his mind based on all his conversations and the traits he knows of her. And most of the times it happens to be a picture perfect. :)
In his mind he has already made a picture of that girl and while he chats to the girl online his mind is only talking to the girl he has already imprinted.
The girl on the other hand is in double mind. Whether the guy is as good as he sounds to be, Whether he can be trusted or not blah blah blah blah...Girls are always girls...:P
Though both of them are chatting, it is their minds, though sitting miles apart, are really conversing.
Now after good amount of time they decide to meet and the guy is obviously over excited and he is only waiting to spend time with the girl he has pictured in his mind and not any one else. He doesnt know that his dreams are going to be shattered soon.. :) The most interesting part is that the guy changes himself to the girl he has pictured in his mind. He prepares himself to all the questions posed by the girl in his mind.
On the other hand the girl also prepares herself to the sutuation more or less in similar lines and with lot of questions on her mind. In most of the cases she will ask some one to silently follow her. :)
When both of them meet, the dreams of both the persons crash at the slightest deviation from what the mind has already imprinted. (See how powerful the mind is !! )
He has already make a picture of girl and now the girl infront of him is not the one he wanted to spend time with. The guy is depressed and tries to get rid off the picture from his mind ; while the girl obviously is happy that the guy turned out to be a "typical guy" and her friends adds little spice to the conversation and they bitch about the guys on their way back.. :) (How interesting !! )
We see these kind of incidents day in and day out, a young upcoming musician idolizing a well acclaimed musician, a would be director patronizing a maverick director..We see it everywhere...
The above example of guy and girl makes things more simple to explain and to relate.
The point here is not whether the guy is right or the girl is wrong . The problem here is that we never understand everyone has clay feet. Every one has some short comings. Every one in this world are just like how we are. We are social beings and we have anger, ego, pride, jealousy, lust, patience etc.We only tell that we accept the person as they are. As long as we are not in the shoes of the person we dont mind telling this any no.of times.. Isnt it ?? :)
Also iam amazed at the level we are controlled by our mind. It dictates terms to us. Whoa !!! It makes the rules while we become slaves.
It is said that light travles faster than any other object. But it is Mind that can travel faster than light and many scientists know this. But if they introduce this unfortunately half of the existing science has to be scrapped and it leaves too many questions on how to control mind which is not an easy task and needs all together a different set of mind set.. :)
G : Hiii
B : How r u
G : Doing gud...How r u
B : Am ok.
G : Y ? What happened ?
B : Bad day @ work
G : Itz ok.It happens.Itz part of the game.
N so on and so forth
The conversation above is happening between a guy and girl online.
Now, what's running in the minds of these two people.
The guy obviously had a bad day and she is trying pacify him with her nice words. The guy feels she is the best person ever he has met unlike his colleagues who try to snap at him. Over the period of time the guy starts picturizing the girl in his mind based on all his conversations and the traits he knows of her. And most of the times it happens to be a picture perfect. :)
In his mind he has already made a picture of that girl and while he chats to the girl online his mind is only talking to the girl he has already imprinted.
The girl on the other hand is in double mind. Whether the guy is as good as he sounds to be, Whether he can be trusted or not blah blah blah blah...Girls are always girls...:P
Though both of them are chatting, it is their minds, though sitting miles apart, are really conversing.
Now after good amount of time they decide to meet and the guy is obviously over excited and he is only waiting to spend time with the girl he has pictured in his mind and not any one else. He doesnt know that his dreams are going to be shattered soon.. :) The most interesting part is that the guy changes himself to the girl he has pictured in his mind. He prepares himself to all the questions posed by the girl in his mind.
On the other hand the girl also prepares herself to the sutuation more or less in similar lines and with lot of questions on her mind. In most of the cases she will ask some one to silently follow her. :)
When both of them meet, the dreams of both the persons crash at the slightest deviation from what the mind has already imprinted. (See how powerful the mind is !! )
He has already make a picture of girl and now the girl infront of him is not the one he wanted to spend time with. The guy is depressed and tries to get rid off the picture from his mind ; while the girl obviously is happy that the guy turned out to be a "typical guy" and her friends adds little spice to the conversation and they bitch about the guys on their way back.. :) (How interesting !! )
We see these kind of incidents day in and day out, a young upcoming musician idolizing a well acclaimed musician, a would be director patronizing a maverick director..We see it everywhere...
The above example of guy and girl makes things more simple to explain and to relate.
The point here is not whether the guy is right or the girl is wrong . The problem here is that we never understand everyone has clay feet. Every one has some short comings. Every one in this world are just like how we are. We are social beings and we have anger, ego, pride, jealousy, lust, patience etc.We only tell that we accept the person as they are. As long as we are not in the shoes of the person we dont mind telling this any no.of times.. Isnt it ?? :)
Also iam amazed at the level we are controlled by our mind. It dictates terms to us. Whoa !!! It makes the rules while we become slaves.
It is said that light travles faster than any other object. But it is Mind that can travel faster than light and many scientists know this. But if they introduce this unfortunately half of the existing science has to be scrapped and it leaves too many questions on how to control mind which is not an easy task and needs all together a different set of mind set.. :)
Monday, October 13, 2008
22 days
What makes a person/country goes into the books of history ?
Itz war. Yes u heard me.... itz war that makes a person/country go into the pages of history.
How many know the chancellor of Germany after Hitler ?
How many know the name of the PM after Winston Churchill ?
With 22 days left for US presidential elections and at time when the nation is having crunch time in financial sector am very eager to see what the result will be.
Though am not keen on both the candidates, the policies of the Republican Candidate have been really intelligent. But the war continues.
(It needs separate section to discuss about both the candidates and their policies. Just a note Messiah wants to impose tax on business entities for a capitalist economy. Also govt will intervene in and regulate capitalist society. Please dont call US as capitalist economy. Mr. Genius... :) )
Will war continues because many lost their lives or will war continue because of the above reasons time will only tell.
The seeds of this war has been planted during Clinton's era. Yes it z Clinton who desperately wanted to wage war. (Proof : watch Body of Lies) . Also it was he who granted loans on no credit basis because of which the financial system collapsed this year. Mortgage crisis followed with everything.
Unfortunately much of the heat is on Mr.Bush for the things which he had no control on. Well possibly he could have done some thing to regulate all the these. May be he wanted continue the legacy.
What will happen on Nov 4 ? Will Messiah win over and change the dynamics of a capitalist society? or Will Republics take the house for 3rd consecutive time ?
Lets wait n watch
what to ?
Itz been a while since i blogged. I dunno on what to blog. I have so many random toughts, some funny wierdo stuff, some cool pictures, some exciting moments...
Damn ! am so confused. Dunno where 2 start.
Lemme sleep over it...zzzzzzzzzz......:)
Damn ! am so confused. Dunno where 2 start.
Lemme sleep over it...zzzzzzzzzz......:)
Tuesday, February 26, 2008
Monday, February 18, 2008
random thoughts
It's been around 18 months since i left my home, my parents, my friends..everything.There was never a clear aim when i was coming to usa...Why i was coming to usa...What i want to do here...Nothing was clear...
I was not sure if i came here for dollars...But iam sure that the white skin, tall buildings and cars fascinated me more than any thing else...
It was a smooth transition for me when i came here.. I had bunch of friends with me..Time flew with them...Before even i realized time had come for all of us to move on and take up "responsibilities".
From then on life in USA had been an eye opener to me...
It had been another learning phase for me..
Many a times God teaches us in many ways..But we fail to learn due to many reasons...
He shows us the way...Infact he shows us all the possible ways..
He leaves us at that point..It is up to us which way we chose...
During this period the same thing happened to me..He showed me many things..
My parents taught me that MAN is the highest form of God's creation...
We all should have been blessed to take human forms...
But what has happened today is that we all are degrading the spirit of human form..
Probably we make God feel embarrassed..It is not God...
I think we our selves degrade us...We fall to such low levels that even GOD cant help us...
What a pity isn't it ?
How can some one not go and see their parents for the last time.. ?
How can monetary issues come in the way of parents... ?
How can some one talk ill of some one else all the time... ?
How can we help others half heartedly.. ?
How can we be so fake all the time.. ?
I was not used to this kind of life style..
I always thought all the people are good...
This experience taught me that Man is always Man...
He can never be different..He can never even strive to be different...
He will never improve...He will only be a sheep in the flock wandering without aim...
These thoughts and many more disturbed me tremendously more than anything else..
More than my own professional front...
I even don't know if iam over reacting to the situation..
But i know for sure i dont want to repeat same mistakes..
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