Power House

B : Hiii
G : Hiii
B : How r u
G : Doing gud...How r u
B : Am ok.
G : Y ? What happened ?
B : Bad day @ work
G : Itz ok.It happens.Itz part of the game.
N so on and so forth
The conversation above is happening between a guy and girl online.

Now, what's running in the minds of these two people.
The guy obviously had a bad day and she is trying pacify him with her nice words. The guy feels she is the best person ever he has met unlike his colleagues who try to snap at him. Over the period of time the guy starts picturizing the girl in his mind based on all his conversations and the traits he knows of her. And most of the times it happens to be a picture perfect. :)
In his mind he has already made a picture of that girl and while he chats to the girl online his mind is only talking to the girl he has already imprinted.

The girl on the other hand is in double mind. Whether the guy is as good as he sounds to be, Whether he can be trusted or not blah blah blah blah...Girls are always girls...:P

Though both of them are chatting, it is their minds, though sitting miles apart, are really conversing.

Now after good amount of time they decide to meet and the guy is obviously over excited and he is only waiting to spend time with the girl he has pictured in his mind and not any one else. He doesnt know that his dreams are going to be shattered soon.. :) The most interesting part is that the guy changes himself to the girl he has pictured in his mind. He prepares himself to all the questions posed by the girl in his mind.

On the other hand the girl also prepares herself to the sutuation more or less in similar lines and with lot of questions on her mind. In most of the cases she will ask some one to silently follow her. :)

When both of them meet, the dreams of both the persons crash at the slightest deviation from what the mind has already imprinted. (See how powerful the mind is !! )


He has already make a picture of girl and now the girl infront of him is not the one he wanted to spend time with. The guy is depressed and tries to get rid off the picture from his mind ; while the girl obviously is happy that the guy turned out to be a "typical guy" and her friends adds little spice to the conversation and they bitch about the guys on their way back.. :) (How interesting !! )

We see these kind of incidents day in and day out, a young upcoming musician idolizing a well acclaimed musician, a would be director patronizing a maverick director..We see it everywhere...
The above example of guy and girl makes things more simple to explain and to relate.

The point here is not whether the guy is right or the girl is wrong . The problem here is that we never understand everyone has clay feet. Every one has some short comings. Every one in this world are just like how we are. We are social beings and we have anger, ego, pride, jealousy, lust, patience etc.We only tell that we accept the person as they are. As long as we are not in the shoes of the person we dont mind telling this any no.of times.. Isnt it ?? :)

Also iam amazed at the level we are controlled by our mind. It dictates terms to us. Whoa !!! It makes the rules while we become slaves.

It is said that light travles faster than any other object. But it is Mind that can travel faster than light and many scientists know this. But if they introduce this unfortunately half of the existing science has to be scrapped and it leaves too many questions on how to control mind which is not an easy task and needs all together a different set of mind set.. :)